Humanistic therapy is as diverse a practice as the clients it guides. There is no single way to offer humanistic therapy — but these techniques can help you infuse its ideals into your sessions.
1. Active listening
Humanistic therapists — and any therapists — benefit from listening carefully and empathetically to your client. Non-verbal cues, like nodding or smiling, can help reinforce that you are completely present with them.
Tip: Rephrasing a client’s comments and using reflections can show that you’re listening fully and truly understand what they’re saying.
2. Unconditional positive regard
Also a cornerstone of person-centered therapy, unconditional positive regard is about creating a safe, empathetic space for the client to explore, confident that you are listening without judgment. This positivity helps reinforce the notion that they are a good person capable of growth.
Tip: Avoid offering advice or direction in response to your client’s comments. Just listen and accept them.
3. Congruence
Congruence, also known as genuineness, is an important part of humanistic therapy. You can be authentic and approach your client as an equal. Remember, when offering humanistic therapy, you are not an authority figure; you’re a guide on your client’s journey.
Tip: It’s okay to show emotion and react naturally in sessions to build congruence.
4. The empty chair technique
Often used in Gestalt therapy, this exercise asks a client to pretend someone they want to speak with or confront is there in the room, sitting in an empty chair. By acting as if that person were in the room, the client can process and release their feelings and practice for real-life interactions.
Tip: If the empty chair technique proves challenging, you can also role play interactions with your client.
5. Mindfulness practices
Since humanistic therapy is largely about the here and now, mindfulness practices — which help clients build awareness and stay grounded in the present moment — can be a great fit. Body awareness practices, such as identifying how and where emotions show up in the physical body, may be a good choice. However, use caution with clients who have trauma histories, as body-focused awareness exercises can increase distress.
Tip: Meditation, breathwork, and movement practices can also foster mindfulness.
6. Goal setting
Since humanistic therapy is all about personal growth and fulfilling potential, goal-setting can fit nicely into this framework. Help your client think about what they would like to achieve and how they can use their particular blend of strengths and abilities to do so.
Tip: In addition to giving your client something to work toward, goals can be helpful when documenting humanistic therapy sessions.